''The quality of your life is the quality of your relationships''
- Tony Robbins.
You know what it's like. It's all to easy to bring our work home with us, perhaps not always physically but emotionally. Either way, our loved ones don't always get us at our best - Loving and present.
I'm guilty of this one.
Days turn into weeks. Weeks turn into months. Time seems to speed up the older I get!
I don't see my friends nearly as often as I would like.
With all of this in mind, I was over the moon when I recently discovered a tool which I'd honestly describe as life changing. (It sounds like a big promise I know, bear with me).
This tool can dramatically improve the quality of both our personal and professional relationships, and as a result, our lives.
The tool is titled ''Release tension. Set Intention''.
This is a great one to use throughout the day during a 'transition', anytime you go from one situation or activity to the next. For example, travelling to work to actually being at work. Being in bed to getting out of bed. Being on a business phone call to spending time with our loved ones. As you can imagine, we go through dozens of transitions each day.
And as Brendon points out, we carry stress, tension and bad moods from one situation to another. We don't let go and we don't consciously decide how we wish to 'show up' in the next situation. I think of this like being on auto-pilot. Going through the motions.
Imagine the difference it will make to pause briefly throughout the day and switch from auto-pilot to manual?
Brendon suggests listing some of your common daily transitions to become aware of exactly when you can begin to use this tool.
So here it is. As you move from one major activity to another, try this:
It's been two weeks since I discovered this tool and importantly... putting it into practice.
After all, tools/tips/tricks are useless unless applied in real life.
As a lover of mindfulness and communication, this tool has certainly improved both areas.
I'm more conscious as I go about my day. Sometimes I'll only have a few seconds during a transition but it still helps in these brief moments to close my eyes, release tension and consider what my intentions are for what is to come next. My communication with clients, family, and friends is smoother as I find myself asking questions such as:
You'll find questions will come up for you in the moment. Listen to your intuition and ask what you need to ask. The answers will flow afterwards, then it's about living into the intentions.
It's been a pleasure to share this tool with you. I'm grateful to Brendon for sharing his wisdom in his book and grateful to you for reading this article.
You can let me know your thoughts by leaving me a comment. If you want more wisdom, buy the book.
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